free will - we all have it:) Let others exercise theirs:)

I took me all the way to this point in my life to realize that the best way to be a friend is not to necessarily tell a friend what you think is best for them, but to instead listen & be supportive and available if/when things may not as YOU might have wanted for them. For the greatest lessons learned are when we make mistakes, learn from them and thereby don't repeat them:)